tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015272061297905745.post2713078911325431469..comments2023-11-04T10:13:42.803-05:00Comments on Steve: New hospice nurseTyrahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06418738185797433001noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015272061297905745.post-43233968057689587452009-08-12T22:19:40.585-05:002009-08-12T22:19:40.585-05:00Thinking of you Tyra, and so proud of you for cont...Thinking of you Tyra, and so proud of you for continuing to advocate for Steve and doing what needs to be done. <br /><br />You guys are in my thoughts every day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015272061297905745.post-81591710011247485252009-08-12T21:37:00.382-05:002009-08-12T21:37:00.382-05:00You did exactly right and handled it wonderfully. ...You did exactly right and handled it wonderfully. I am sorry that you both had to endure his inconsiderate comments up til now.<br />Good job, Tyra!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015272061297905745.post-85536251964655309042009-08-12T13:18:58.507-05:002009-08-12T13:18:58.507-05:00Good job, Tyra. That person needs to find another...Good job, Tyra. That person needs to find another line of work.anniemcqhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04321843578386603574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015272061297905745.post-87006662935967443142009-08-12T09:37:16.865-05:002009-08-12T09:37:16.865-05:00I know it was hard for you. You handled it beautif...I know it was hard for you. You handled it beautifully and always, always have your family and their best interest at heart. <br />Love,<br />Natalie<br />www.believeinmandy.blogspot.comNatalie Willishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07954624235991297549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015272061297905745.post-19843371810999968352009-08-11T22:49:47.542-05:002009-08-11T22:49:47.542-05:00Good job, Tyra!!Good job, Tyra!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015272061297905745.post-61500608065025927262009-08-11T21:07:58.548-05:002009-08-11T21:07:58.548-05:00So sorry Tyra and Steve. I find it hard to even fo...So sorry Tyra and Steve. I find it hard to even formulate a comment although I too am a nurse. I worked for many years caring for cancer patients before the advent of 'hospice' nursing. All the nurses I worked with embodied the ethics of what was to become hospice nursing.I so wish I were in Texas and could assist you at this time. One of my own personal practices is to care for my patients as though they were my family members; my daughter,my son, my parents,my husband. I put aside my pre-conceived ideas and look for the "person" not the label. I am protective of my patients, standing up for them, beside them or in front of them if need be; sometimes just sitting with them.<br />I have followed you on this journey from the beginning, I have you in my thoughts and prayers daily. Please know that somewhere near you is a nurse who cares and will come to be with you on this leg of your journey. I send love from Maryland from a member of your extended earthly family.Suzanne Vetternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015272061297905745.post-272948437628556202009-08-11T20:20:48.859-05:002009-08-11T20:20:48.859-05:00I had "ISSUES" like that with one of the...I had "ISSUES" like that with one of the nurses while my dad was in the hospital. I finally got in her face and told her to "NEVER step foot near my father or utter his name again"... don't think I ever saw her around him again. I was pretty touchy when it came to daddy.... he was my world... I didn't like anyone treating him with less than the utmost respect. It's how it should be unless the patient is awful, but even then.. compassion should be there at all times.<br />the way you handled things was MUCH better than I did. You are Steve's voice right now. You did the right thing standing up for him. Someone like that should NOT be working with hospice. Hospice should be all about compassionate loving people. I'm so sorry you had to experience that.<br />May God send your family a LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, CHRISTIAN hospice nurse. One that will not only care for, but minister to you all at the same time. They are out there!<br />Our love and prayers for you and your family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015272061297905745.post-7969244109796719002009-08-11T15:23:37.394-05:002009-08-11T15:23:37.394-05:00Tyra,
I am so glad you said something. It is unfo...Tyra,<br />I am so glad you said something. It is unfortunate that it takes folks being treated badly for an employer to see that this person does not represent them well and their mission. I'm just sorry that you had weeks of incompentence to endure in the first place. Blessings to and much love.<br />Debbiechapman.dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12993299238364077382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015272061297905745.post-44612371763979952622009-08-11T15:21:54.809-05:002009-08-11T15:21:54.809-05:00You did the right thing. This is not acceptable. A...You did the right thing. This is not acceptable. As someone said, hospice is supposed to make things very easy and peaceful for the family. Steve deserves nothing but the best of care and compassion. What a jerk that nurse. Who talks like this? If I had a nurse talking like this to any of my patients, he would be out of the door right away. This guy needs to not be a hospice nurse, competant or not, compassion and sensitivity comes first. Sorry you had to go through this, won't happen again, I really hope.Chitnis and Chahalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11476485181376772201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015272061297905745.post-24084153774966664052009-08-11T14:48:58.389-05:002009-08-11T14:48:58.389-05:00Good for you!!!Good for you!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015272061297905745.post-10729988652742308202009-08-11T14:42:33.725-05:002009-08-11T14:42:33.725-05:00OMG! This just infuriates me as a professional nu...OMG! This just infuriates me as a professional nurse. There is absolutely NO excuse for even one comment this incompetant made to you! The fear,uncertainty, and stress of cancer are enough without having it fueled with inane comments(and a completely, blatantly WRONG assessment of Steve's symptoms/troubles as well.) As an advanced practice nurse, I apologize on behalf of all nurses for this person. Hospice is about gentleness, compassion, and understanding above all else and if he cannot practice this, he should leave this practice area- if not the nursing profession itself. Thank God you are a wonderful advocate for Steve and did not put up with this. There are much better hospice nurses available and I pray one is assigned that has those 3 qualities I mentioned in spades. Hang in there honey- you are doing the right things and a new caregiver will come your way that will be a blessing. :)Laura (Ambrook) Redmond from UM MMBnoreply@blogger.com